love to being JUST friends?

[misundrstood]

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Can you go from being in love with someone to being JUST friends? I mean I now it's possible but is it right? To me I don't think it's fair.

[suedehead]

I'm in exactly the same position as you. Me and my ex girlfriend had the worst possible time in the two years we were together. ((Because of me I might add)) We showed signs of getting back together. She says shes still in love with me but wishes to be just friends ((For now at least)) But I feel she is moving on from me because she's going out a lot and she tells me all about her night but I feel theres something not quite there what shes saying. I know I hurt her in a big way. When we met each other - that was it, we were inseperable. It's totally unfair, I agree with you. I want to be her friend, but because I feel a hell of a lot for her it's preventing me from doing so. She's called me selfish about it! But how can I just switch off from what I feel?